Tuesday, March 3, 2026

Held by a Father Who Never Lets Go

 

A Promise She Cannot Yet Understand

A new grandfather holds his baby granddaughter in his arms. He looks at her and tells her how much he loves her. He promises he will always be there for her.

He means every word.

The baby has no idea what he is saying. She cannot grasp the depth of his love or the weight of his promises. She does not know what it means for someone to always be there. She simply rests in his arms, unaware of the fierce devotion surrounding her tiny life.

My friend sees this and says, “This is so much like us with God.”

She is right.

Words We Barely Comprehend

Our Heavenly Father speaks love over us. He makes promises that stretch beyond time. Yet we often understand so little of what He is saying.

Zephaniah gives us this picture:

“For the Lord your God is living among you. He is a mighty savior. He will take delight in you with gladness. With his love, he will calm all your fears. He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.” (Zephaniah 3:17)

Pause there.

He delights in you.
He calms your fears.
He rejoices over you with singing.

These are not distant words. They are deeply personal.

God is not only Creator, though He formed you with intention. He is Father. Scripture says, “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God” (1 John 3:1).

Children. That is who we are.

Love Made Visible

When Jesus entered our world, God stepped into flesh and blood. He revealed the Father’s heart. Through His life, death, and resurrection, Christ secured our redemption.

God’s love is not abstract. It is embodied. It is demonstrated.

As a grandfather speaks tenderly to his grandchild, so God speaks to us.

Learning Love Over Time

My granddaughter, Zipporah, is just sixteen days old. Sweet sixteen.

When I hold her, I tell her I love her. I promise to protect her and to provide for her as I am able. I want her to know that her Poppy loves her more than she can imagine.

She does not understand my words.

So I show her.

I comfort her. I respond when she cries. I support her parents in practical ways. One day she will begin to understand what has always been true. She is deeply loved.

This is how our Father deals with us.

Often we are like infants in His arms. We hear about His faithfulness, His presence, His provision. Yet life presses in. We struggle. We doubt. We ask where He is.

Still, He shows up.

He meets us in quiet ways. He provides in ways we do not always recognize at first. He speaks through Scripture, through others, through unexpected peace. Over time, we begin to perceive what has always been there. His steadfast love.

Paul prayed this for Believers:

“And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.” (Ephesians 3:17–19)

To grasp a love that surpasses knowledge.

There is mystery there. Depth beyond comprehension. Yet it is love meant to be known.

When We Feel Forgotten

There are seasons when we feel abandoned. Prayers seem to echo back unanswered. We wonder if God has stepped away.

Scripture anchors us:

“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:38–39)

Nothing can separate you from His love.

Not your past.
Not your present confusion.
Not your fear of the future.

Through Isaiah, God speaks with fatherly tenderness:

“I have cared for you since you were born. Yes, I carried you before you were born. I will be your God throughout your lifetime, until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you.” (Isaiah 46:3–4)

He carries you.

From the beginning, God instructed the priests to bless His people with these words:

“The Lord bless you and keep you;
The Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you;
The Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” (Numbers 6:24–26)

This is not a distant God. This is a Father whose face shines as He lifts His child. This is His posture toward you.

Held, Even Now

So be encouraged.

When life grows loud, return to these truths. Hide them in your heart. Ask the Spirit to remind you who you are. “The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children” (Romans 8:16).

You may not yet grasp the magnitude of His promises. You may not fully understand the depth of His love.

But you are held.

And He is not going anywhere.

Let me leave you with this blessing:

“Now all glory to God, who is able to keep you from falling away and will bring you with great joy into his glorious presence without a single fault. All glory to him who alone is God, our Savior through Jesus Christ our Lord. All glory, majesty, power, and authority are his before all time, and in the present, and beyond all time! Amen.” (Jude 24-25)